But if the desire for a tangible sign is a yearning for connection, what if our loved ones ARE showing up – in such subtle ways that we are missing the signal? Does a sign need to be a paranormal, graphic gesture? If we could see these random remembrances of them as connective threads, we might discover that our loved ones are present in our lives on a daily basis. What about the random thought of something they said, a memory that suddenly arises and makes us smile? Isn’t this a sign of our continued connection with our loved one after they die?
I challenge you to consider this: if our dead loved ones live on in our hearts, then they show up in our thoughts and memories. They show up when we don’t know what to do and suddenly remember what their advice would be. They show up in a gesture that is just like theirs, in a song on the radio, in their favorite flower that blooms in the garden.
I challenge you to notice that they show up every day. The signs are there if you just pay attention.